The Power of Understanding How Needs Work

Working with Nahid

I first hired Nahid 3 years ago, when I graduated with my M.B.A. from Pepperdine University. Nahid’s coaching was beneficial for me in two ways. First, she helped me to explore career options that might best utilize my M.B.A. I wanted to incorporate my background, my education, and my interests into a logical career path that I would enjoy. Until that point, I’d been in Engineering, and through this process with Nahid, it became clear to me that I wanted to transition into Project Management.

Then Nahid helped me to successfully target ideal companies and to navigate the actual job transition. I landed a great position in an excellent company, where today I’m able to leverage my Engineering background, while increasing my role in Project Management over time. I really enjoy what I do, and am working on a P.M.P. certification, as well.

Recently, I reconnected with Nahid, because I wanted to plan my next career and life steps.  I joined the Aspyrre Community program, which I can easily incorporate into my busy work schedule. 

My “Aha!” Moment

During a Needs Workshop, a major shift occurred for me, while reading through our workbook.  I suddenly became more acutely aware of my collective needs. Then, during the workshop, I had an “aha!” moment.  I recognized that I have the power to get my needs met more easily, and in ways I might have dismissed in the past. Whether it be at work, in my community, or anywhere – I can come from a more empowered place.

I realized I don’t have to be dependent on people or situations outside of myself to get my needs met. There are an abundance of opportunities in the world, without anyone or any particular person or company being in control of my life or my needs. Today I’m practicing applying this knowledge in all my daily interactions, and I’m also glad that I can go to the Community Library and listen to the tele-class recording any time I like.

I’d like to add that while the Needs Workshop isn’t something that you’d find in the mainstream of personal & professional development programs, it is absolutely life-changing!! It really needs to be introduced to more people as an awareness and personal empowerment tool.

My Results

My perspective and my relationship dynamics have changed for the better, since I have more compassion for the needs of others, as well as for my own.  Specifically, one situation that changed is this. I’d had one particular relationship at work where a communication dynamic had been uncomfortable for me.   After doing the Needs Workshop, I was able to identify this situation clearly. I requested a time to talk, and then I addressed my concern and calmly took ownership up front for my contribution, while also asking that my needs be met. To my surprise, the other person responded positively and professionally. Two months later I’m enjoying a much more functional and enjoyable relationship, and I see even more opportunities for working together in the future.

Why I Recommend Nahid and the Aspyrre Community Program

Nahid takes situations and dilemmas that might otherwise seem overwhelming, and turns them into concepts and ideas that are easy to understand and approach.  She distills the abstract into concrete steps that can be implemented quickly. In a sense, it’s like she gives you a set of tools. Plus, I trust Nahid implicitly, so I know that a method she recommends is not going backfire on me. Finally, she brings the emotional side into the business world, with her unique background and her skills. I’m a big fan of Nahid
as a top notch professional coach, and I highly recommend The Aspyrre Community.

L. Christine